The Real Guru Of Love And Sex: Are You a Good Friend?

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Are You a Good Friend?

What characteristics make a good friend to have? There are those characteristics that we are born with, or we can buy them?

Relations, regardless of what, to take hard work. This means that some of the attributes of being one will be easy for you and others, you have to cultivate for a long time. Common attributes Others include:

Be an attentive listener and eggs each.

When a friend comes to you with a problem or question, you should take the time to listen. But you do not have fuel to the fire, adding unnecessary comments. For example, if your friend is upset by the actions of his friend, do not say things like: “He SOB”. Instead focus your comments on your friend and her feelings.

Tell the truth.

Regardless of how difficult it is, however, as a friend, you must be totally honest with one another. This does not mean that you must be stupid. However, this means that you have to phrase your comments constructive so that your friend is willing to listen to what you have to say.

You must be reliable.

You must keep secret his friend. Your friends should know that everything they tell you will not be shared with anyone. In friendship, there is no place for gossip.